Pouring salt in my sugar won’t make yours any sweeter

Yup, I said it and I not apologizing for it.

This never ending girl game, the judgement, the mean up and down looks, etc is so high school but sadly grown women still do it everyday and unfortunately think there is nothing wrong with it and no one notices.

So the past few weeks I have purposely started paying very close attention to peoples body language and actions around me in my day to day life and DANG!

All I have to say is Jesus needs to come down here and give a reality check to some of his children!

Now don’t get me wrong we all guilty of having judgment, myself included. None of us are perfect but this whole girl game is getting out of hand.

We are all just trying to get through our days no matter how much you have the attitude “I have it all figure out” sorry sister but none of us do!

And sadly I found more judgement coming from people that “are involved Christians” than anyone else which makes this even worse....by involved I’m relating to woman I know that are in church and in church functions etc.

As Christian women we should all love our brothers and sisters & love our neighbors. As Christians we should be loving people the way that God loves us.

Think about it, you meet a stranger and treat them as God treats us they are going to remember that and be thankful for your love, care, and generosity. If it just so happens that they do not know Jesus and you just dripped that Love onto them don’t you think they just might want a piece of that to?

Turn that around

Your judgement you show to others, the up and down looks, the entitled stares, the I’m better than you attitude, and just the down right being rude and being disrespectful shows your heart.

Christian or not.

People may not always remember the things you said to them, but I promise they will ALWAYS remember the way you made them feel!

Myself personally, I have had to start turning the other cheek to all of this judgement. I am not everyone’s cup of tea and thats okay!

As a girl, it has become the new normal in today’s world but it drives me crazy seeing how bad it’s truly getting!

We do not all have to be Best friends but we can respectful and kind....

I think about these grown women and the way their children see them. We all know that our children pay way more attention to our actions than anyone thinks, so what are we teaching them?

This topic makes me especially sad for young girls because this is the root of where it starts.

• I want my kiddo to know his worth but I also want him to never think he is better than anyone.

• I want him to help someone who is getting bullied, friends or not. • I want him to help someone if they drop something and help them pick it up. • I want him to be respectful to everyone around him

• I want him to know his heart, and know that Jesus is always watching and remember that you are a child of God just as everyone else because at the end of the day we are all equal in Gods eyes.

Now, did you notice I said “I want”?

I am a mom, and yes I want the best for my son but I cannot promise you he will always be all of those things. What I can tell you is, I will do everything in my power at his mother to pour into him everyday and hope and pray that what we are teaching him and showing him he will retain. If he sees us treating people with Hate, he will think its acceptable to hold judgement and hate.

If he sees us love on people and have respect for others, he will know that’s how you are supposed to be.

This world is full of Hate, don’t add to it.

I challenge you, start being mindful of the way you are treating others.

Go out of your way to be kind, like I have said before. You have no idea what God is asking that person to walk through.

Stopping judging them based on your own opinions,

the person next to you could be Judging you for judging them!

And as a wise woman once told me -

“If you mind your own business, you will stay plenty busy”

until next time,

Stormy